Parenting Corner: Independence in the Home

Chopping apples for applesauce with a child-friendly tool.

The term “Montessori at home” is prevalent online as parents consider setting up their homes to mirror many parts of the classroom. It is not necessary to have Montessori materials at home. The best way to support your child's Montessori education is to find ways to encourage them to be independent at home.

This, of course, does not mean leaving the child trying to put on their shoes in tears! Many of the ways to encourage independence can simply be done by setting them up for success ahead of time. One way to solve the shoe problem is to purchase shoes that are easy for them to put on by themselves with a little at home “lesson”. If your child does not know how to tie yet, velcro or slip-on shoes will make getting ready in the morning much easier.

In general, including your child in your everyday activities and finding small jobs for them to do with their own tools will give a boost to their confidence. (Not to mention, if started early, this connection in the home can and will continue through elementary and teenage years.) 

Practically, this may involve a little more patience and time built-in to your day, but the benefits are so worth it. The kitchen is a fantastic place to include them. Consider placing a set of dishes in a drawer at their level in the kitchen to allow them to participate in preparing their meals in a simple way. More involved ideas could include purchasing a Learning Tower to give them access to the counter for cooking or baking. 

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